Sui: Following. Supreme success. Perseverance furthers. No blame. Thunder in the middle of the lake: the image of Following. Thus the superior man at nightfall goes indoors for rest and recuperation.

Do you feel the need to be in control to feel safe? When life changes unexpectedly, does your ego become restless and defensive? “Following” (Sui) represents a mature adaptation—letting go of rigid self-centeredness to harmonize with the current rhythm of life.

Psychologically, we often struggle between different attachments, fearing we might lose our significance. True strength lies in psychological flexibility: being calm like the lake on the outside while maintaining inner vitality like thunder. This is not passive submission, but an active alignment with reality.

Observe if your persistence is rooted in growth or merely in defending your ego. By practicing active listening and following the natural flow in your relationships, you will find that leadership is often best achieved through cooperation. Allow your heart to rest and move with the tide.

Laozi said: “He who does not contend, no one can contend with him.” Taoism views the Sui hexagram as the essence of flowing with fate. Don’t force yourself upstream or demand immediate results. Rest when it is dark and flow when the water moves. When you stop struggling for a specific position, you’ll realize the entire universe supports your journey. Following nature is the ultimate wisdom.